Going through a break up? Relationships are fragile, and painful. They can hurt, and you are hurting now, I know. I have gone through what you are going through. One thing you should know, it's not your fault, it happens, but now, you are going to learn how to get your Ex back.
You may feel like calling your ex and begging him or her to come back to you. But....is this really going to make things better? What it probably will do is make your situation much worse, might even chase him/her away even further, and that's not what you want.
What you should do, at this point, is...the opposite of what you are feeling. Feel like calling your ex? Don't do it! Want to stay inside and cry all day? Don't do it! Instead...follow these five steps, and you will have the answer to the age old question, "How do I get back together with my ex?"
Step One: Be strong. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is desperate. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. Let your ex think that you are strong, and have moved on, that you are doing "just fine" without them! What will happen is...your ex will realize that they are not doing "just fine" without you! And that's how you want them to feel.
Step Two: Decrease communication. Take a break from you ex, close off communication, let him or her stew for a while without any contact. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintutive when your main focus is to get back with them, but it is one of the most important steps to getting them back in your life. Being without any communication from you, will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.
Step Three: Be flexible. Be a listener and a sympathizer. Don't be foreceful with your ex, don't demand that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Your ex will be surprised when they see this other side of you. It may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.
Step four: Get the heck out! Call your friends, this is no time for you to be home alone, feeling sorry for yourself! Do something you have never done before, learn something new, enjoy your time with your friends. This will help convince your ex that they have lost a gem...and it will be therapeutic for you too.
Step five: Be yourself. There was a really good reason why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, go back to being who you were when it all first began. Let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. Finding yourself, may be the best thing that you have done for yourself in a long time, and this new self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
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Wednesday, August 12, 2009
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